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While I was in high school, I fully thought I was asexual. I talked with others (online), read the few books out there and journaled a lot. I went to college, found a crush, dated him, broke up and become best friends. While with him, I never had the urge to sleep together and never felt bad that the physical part wasn't matching what "society" (read: our friends) thought it should be. I still have crushes but it is always on a intellectual basis; "wouldn't it be fun to be with him, it would be great if..." So I have settled on just being me, looking around but not really interested in experiencing. I am perfectly happy this way and don't feel lacking in any way. I do believe sexuality isn't rigid. I am on the 'not at all thank you' end of the scale and content. That is all I need.
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"Mommy, the presidents are squishing me!"
"Using the pull out method of contraceptive is like saying I won't use a seat belt, I'll just jump out of the car before it hits that tree."
Sara
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