little_tippler

ummm...sorry to point this out but I believe you, uptown, were the person who made a thread about how you thought old people (because they were no longer attractive - in your opinion), shouldn't have sex....

I just think it's weird how you're so defensive about this and yet you think it's ok when people are older?! Someone explain this to me.

Here is that thread.

http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthr...=1#post1686310

It's ok to have certain standards in a relationship but you can't be totally intransigent and hope everything will be like the movies all the time. I believe the best relationships have to be worked at and are the product not of an idyllic existence but rather of a shared experience of compassion, empathy, trust, caring, love and passion.

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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.

Fernando Pessoa, 1918