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Originally Posted by NetFreak0485
Oh, I amost forgot to add this in. I am not like the guys this girl has dated, who have been out for sex & have gotten it, by either raping her or whichever you wanna come up with. I know the age is kinda a big difference, but her parents are somewhat strict, yet they don't care of who she dates & at times they do. But, her friends had more to do with us not being a couple right now, than her parents or herself.
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Whatever your intentions, the fact remains that you are of age for legal consent and she is not. Regardless of what her parents or friends think or advise or allow her to do, it should be up to you as an adult to exercise some judgment in this situation. If this girl sounded like she was mature and had a good head on her shoulders, I might advise you to pursue a non-sexual (JAILBAIT!!!) relationship with her till she's old enough to have sex with you legally. However, it sounds like she's not mature, not capable of making responsible choices, and not ready to have a relationship with a 20-year-old! You should do both of you a favor and wish her well, and move on. What do you foresee as the result of you becoming "a couple"? Would you have sex with her? Would you date her for 2 years chastely before having sex? Do you want to marry her?
Listen, this girl has been through a lot, and it sounds like the best you could do for her is to offer her support and friendship and NOTHING else. Remove your own motivations and wants and needs from the situation (which is what adults do for children, which is what she is) and search for a romantic relationship among the adult population.