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I want her to orgasm, but it isn't always a matter of both of us getting off. Sometimes I just enjoy taking care of her without either of us needing to be concerned with whether I climax, and vice versa. Since we've learned to relax and not concern ourselves with the idea that we both have to come every time we make love, we've each been able to take pleasure from pleasing the other and been able to recieve without guilt.
It took quite some time to get to this point, though. The real benefit is that it tends to be much more intense and more likely to result in multiple or sustained orgasms if we're both invested in giving just one of us pleasure.
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