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Originally Posted by maleficent
It depends on the person and why they are flirting... I know two types of flirts, one is harmless the other is dangerous.
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indeed true words here Mal.
It depends on the person.
I am a flirt, my husband is used to it, i however have never cheated and would not dream of it, but lighthearted flirting is in my nature and my husband is fine with it and even finds it amusing.
My husband is not a flirt at all and never has been, so if he were to do it, it would be out of character and would signal something was not right to me.
I think what it comes down to is:
Is it normally in this person's behavior to flirt or not?
And if he/she is keeping this flirting a secret, that would certainly be a warning flag to me... keeping secrets is never good for a relationship.
Sweetpea