While many may to say "oh, who cares what her parents think or what her friends say?" reality steps in and demands to be noticed. Fact is, you are NEVER going to be her whole world, even if you eventually marry, and if the opinions of those people influence her thinking now, it's not going to get any better later in life.
Bottomline: She knows how you feel, and you know what you feel, but this may be a case where "us against the world" will wind up with the world winning. Not a very romantic observation, but it's true all too often.
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A Voice Of Reason, not necessarily the ONLY one.
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