I think the main thing we're learning in this thread is this:
People need to be careful with the word "is".
Eg:
"Sex is a bond between two people."
"There is always some level of uncertainty."
"Open relationships are by definition flighty and lack clear structure."
Substute "can be" for "is" (or "are") in any of those sentances and you've got a perfectly valid statement, something anyone could agree with. Unfortunately, as written they're merely jabs at a way of life the writer knows nothing about beyond their prejudices and iron-clad opinions.
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