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Originally Posted by match000
So, now there are 2 days left before the girls leave.
The 2nd cute girl who was very distant from me, especially after I hit on her, well, it turns out that night I hit on her she *did* have a fight with her BF. In fact, they had broken up that night just before I hit on her. Actually, the cute girl had only told me and The One I'm Not Interested In this news yesterday when the 3 of us were hanging out. She had not told any of her close girlfriends (all 7 of them!) this news!
Any suggestions? Although she kept distant from me a week (she was wary/disliking of me for hitting on the other cute girl who had a BF), yesterday we hung out with The One I'm Not Interested In and things were patched up and going good.
Before I had made it clear to the One I'm NOt Interested In that I don't like her, this cute girl was afraid to talk to me much because she did not want to hurt The One I'm Not Interested In (b/c they are good friends). However, I had made it clear to The One I'm NOt Interested In, and I kept saying the same thing (that I'm not interested in The One I'm Not Interested In in that way) in front of the cute girl (She knew that anyways).
So is the coast clear to express my interest in her again? Or should I just be friends for the remaining 2 days and not risk her giving ME rejection?
Yesterday when we were talking I had made light/fun of my previous attempt at hitting on her, saying that after she distanced herself from me, I did likewise. I also mentioned that when I had hit on her last week, I didn't know she had a BF at all.
Also, this cute girl keeps saying she has to go back home to Asia to see if the relationship is ended for good, because she says before this had happened and her and her BF got back together after one of them made a small ammends. So basically she said she is going to just go home and see whats up, but she did say *she* was the one who ended the relationship over the phone here in the USA, not her BF.
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What kind of relationship are you looking for in two days? It seems to me that people spend months, even years, trying to work out the gender issues you are hoping to resolve in two days time.
Also, you seem to assume that only reasoning behind the "cute" girls not talking to you is due to being under the power of their leader. It's possible they didn't want to talk to you regardless, and you are just ignoring that aspect.
Honestly, in two days time, I don't think you are going to accomplish anything, so I would recommend moving on and seeking a realistic goal. Anything accomplished in two days is likely going to be forced and unfulfilling anyway, so you might as well move on now.