if she's thinking about it she will do it. its up to you to either let her go behind your back or do it knowingly. either way, if you are uncomfortable about it talk to her and let her know. if she still persists that this is an avenue that she wants to explore, give her some legal papers explaining that if your relationship deteriorates because of this that she has no grounds in a divorce. protect yourself and your kids from her and her slutty friend. the last thing you need is her going out and banging some other guy with your permission and leaving you for him, then taking the kids, house, and half your money in the divorce.
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