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It sounds as though you know that her being with other men will have a negative affect on your marriage. Tell her how you feel and make it clear that if she chooses this path, it may be a deal breaker for your marriage.
It doesn't seem as if your wife is taking your feelings into account or respecting you are her partner. This sets off red flags to me.
Once things like honoring what your partner wants and respecting your partners feelings go out the window (which is appears they may have done so) . . . than it's not really an open relationship anymore, it's something else.
communicate with her and Be Honest about how you are feeling and if she doesn't take your feelings into account in her actions, then you need to take some steps from there.
Sweetpea
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