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Originally Posted by ratbastid
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Those are the only two common rules I know in every poly/open/swinging couple: everyone has to be comfortable, all rules must be followed.
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The man done gone said it.
Of course you are stuffed if you allowed behaviour you dislike in te past without protest.
Talk talk talk - communicate.
Let her know how you feel, let her decide what to do, ten react accordingly.
If it means packing your bags, or just making her a nice breakfast wen se comes home from his house, make sure that you can live with your consequences.