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I've done that to a guy... well, not quite that drastic but pretty bad.
I fooled myself into thinking that I had broken up with a guy one weekend (it didn't get through to him, it was over the phone and I wasn't direct enough), and the next weekend I slept with this friend...
big mess. major regret on my part. Hurt feelings all over the place. It's not pretty. It's very wrong. And you don't have to blame her, because trust me, if she has any concience whatsoever she will be secretly beating herself up over it - you don't need to remind her or dwell on it yourself.
Just write it off as "thank goodness I didn't get hitched to this hoar" and move on.
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"Sometimes I have to remember that things are brought to me for a reason, either for my own lessons or for the benefit of others." Cynthetiq
"violence is no more or less real than non-violence." roachboy
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