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In a "swinging" or "open" relationship, it is of the utmost importance that the core relationship be solid, and that ANY outside activities be agreed upon mutually and without coersion. If you are not comfortable with this, it is vital that you be open and honest about it from start to finish. The marriage is a contract between the two of you, and is certainly open for addendums, ammendment, etc. but that requires mutual consent. Anything that breaks the contract without mutual consent is a breach of contract. Put another way: swinging is fine if you both agree, swinging is defined mutually by the two of you, as to what is agreeable, and what is not. Some swing only with partners in same room, some swing alone, etc. but you should try to ensure that things are kept within the bounds of mutual comfort... always.
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