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My wife wants another man....what to do?
Thats basically my situation. My wife wants to be w/another man sexually.
The question is...should I let her?
We have been married for 12.5yrs, we have a pretty solid relationship. We have 2 kids...7 and 9. In the past we have ventured out together...she first expressed interest in being w/a woman. So about 7 yrs ago we started swinging. Only girl/girl at first...but gradually up to "anything goes". We were always together...this was something we did together! Through out our marriage she has hurt me a few times...by being w/other men (she has never cheate though). We'll within the past couple months she has expressed that she wants to venture out on her own. I personally think her best friend (who is a major slut) is influencing this desire. I have always given my wife anything and everything she has ever wanted. I just don't think I can give her this......
Here are my concerns...
First I don't think I am emotionally ready for this
Secondly, I don't think this snowball effect will stop
We both really love each other...she loves (at least she says so), she just craves attention from other men.
PLEASE any advice is appreciated!
Thanks
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