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One mistake to avoid: whatever it is, let it be something that you actually enjoy doing, or think you'd enjoy doing. Keep it reasonable -- no monster truck rallies on the first date, unless she looks like the type who might enjoy them -- but remember: you're not just showing her a good time, you're sharing some of your likes, dislikes, and lifestyle knowledge with her, in a way that shows your confidence in yourself.
If you just try to do things that you think she'll like, she won't really know who you are but she _will_ think that you're pretty uncertain about who you are. And that's not attractive.
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