educating yourself works wonders as well. nothing is more tantalizing than a guy who's passionate and knowledgable about current events, authors, etc and is willing to debate it a bit. 'yes men' are incredibly boring. know what stimulates your girl's mind and learn something about it so she doesn't have to hear "uh-huh" or "that's cool" all night. and as a bonus, you might find a new interest or impress her friends (which can score bonus points as well) and yours.
oh, and this may seem like a "duh" moment, but... gentlemen, hygeine goes a long way. strong aftershave and/or overpowering cologne does not. women love a mysterious smelling man with a scent you can't place. smelling like a magazine ad is not a turn on. well, for me, anyway.
and that's all from the peanut gallery.
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