Before I met hubby it seemed like I attracted mostly bad boys. I know I have a strong personality, I am extremely outgoing and willing to step out first to do things. I think this intimidated a lot of the "nice" guys. I've been told (and I'm glad to hear it. lol) that I exude a certain sexuality though not overt. In the religious circles that I ran in a sexual undertone is feared by many guys so I attracted very few of those.
Now that hubby and I swing I tend to attract a lot of guys, young and old. Many seem like a badboy type. But then again in a swinger lifestyle, many of the participants are risk takers in the first place.
My first boyfriend was an abuser but my second was actually quite submissive in a way. So I find it hard to catagorize the kind that I find.
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My Karma just ran over your Dogma.
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