My guide to Oral sex...69 style:
[NOTE]This is all what has worked for me in the past, it may not work for you, but should at least get you thinking about things that will work for you [/NOTE]
A lot of the same technique applies to 69 as been mentioned in the previous two tutorialesque posts. There are a few key differences that can make your girl crave 69 like a fat kid in a bakery. I love it, I can't get enough of any variety of oral sex. I love 69 for a few reasons. One is that I can get a blow job for a long time as my concentration is diverted. I can also give AND recieve pleasure at the same time, and for me giving pleasure is as good if not better than recieving it. Another reason is that sometimes it's easier to see if shes enjoying it or not by the way she grinds her hips into your face. It also gives her a completely new sensation because her vagina is completely upside down and your approaching it in a new way.
The first thing to discuss is the approach. This should be something that you talk about before hand, there is nothing (except a mid-coitus fart) that can kill the mood faster then you suggesting that she flip around and stick her ass in your face. A little discussion coupled with a non-chalant "but baby, I want to taste you right now" as shes about to go down on you can make the transition to "ok, how about we do both?" easier than you ever imagined.
Now that shes making beeping noises and parking her pleasure zone right in front of your face you need to make sure you get comfortable. No matter what kind of clit she has and whether you'll be there for 10 minutes or an hour straining your neck to reach up to her is just not going to cut it. The solution is simple, just put a few pillows under your head and make sure that he legs are spread enought to give you access properly is key.
Your set, it could be a lounge chair with a good view you're so comfortable (all your missing is the umbrellaed drink, though you have something even more tasty right above you.
A big issue with 69 and being on the bottom happens to be your arm placement. Since its most likely that her legs are over your shoulders you have a lot of access to get her comfortable. Don't sit on your hands, though its hard for men you have to multi-task. When you start lapping at her make sure your hands are moving. You can reach her breasts from where you are, pay attention to them. you can reach her back from where you are, a light touch or a slight scrape will drive her nuts. you can reach her butt from where you are; grab, pull apart, squeeze, kiss, lick, most of all pay attention to her whole body.
Much like was said before start off with some long lapping. Keep your tounge loose and lick her like you would drag your tounge up her stomach if she was on her back. Remember that shes now in the reverse orientation that she was before so when you're licking you'll be pulling down the hood over the clit. This can be remedied one of two ways. you can a) make your tounge stiff and go both ways, up and down or b) you can take one of your hands and pull back the hood from below. Either works and it comes down to how well your hands are working.
Then you are welcome to start sucking on her clit and or focusing on it with your tounge. Many of the same techniques are used just keep in mind that everything is reversed vertically.
The other important thing is in my experience to finger her as well. This causes a problem because your hands are not in a position to do that well. The key here is to get them around her legs. This can be done without fanfare just by moving them up against her legs and subtly letting her know that you need 'out.' When your arms are free you can use them to spread her a little more open and stick a finger or two in her while you continue to give the little guy hell. With the other hand you can put a finger in her bum or just use it to continue to caress her from underneath or from above (her thighs like attention too).
What I have found works well (read: TIP!) is if you don't do too much thrusting with your fingers until shes really really into it. caress her thighs for a long time and then slowly insert one finger and move it around in a circular motion. You can curl your finger in order to hit the g-spot but just moving it around can also induce dizzyness. Be thourough. Attend her every inch, as john mayer put it her body is a wonderland. play on the swings and ride down the slide.
TIP#2: get into it when your hands are under her and playing with her stomach and breasts wrap them around her waist and push her into your face, sucking in all that you can and moving your tounge around while she is in your mouth. its the enthusiasm that will get her every time. come out gasping for air and then dive right back in making mmmm noises and moaning. If your sincere she'll love it, if you're not shell know.
TIP#3: Let her know that shes doing a good job, every once in a while stop what your doing (for a brief second) and put your head to the side and moan. Tell her that she has to slow down or you'll come too quickly, fail to make sentences bit her thighs, throw your head back. Be creative you'll be fine.
From this position you can also have her sit up (especially if you need some time to recover before blowing your load) and sit on your face.
The possibilities are endless but if you enjoy it and you attend to her needs she will do the same back and more. Its an endless circle of happiness and pleasure, especially if your girl is a giver as well.
Have fun! Add to this, critique it, love it!
