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problems with sex: I have been raised to respect women. The common ideals of women in popular culture are those which conflict with the way I have been made to think about women. If it is uncomfortable (ask any woman, sex leaves you walking funny), I feel guilty. If she does not have an orgasam, I feel selfish. I still do not feel comfortable with recieving oral sex.
Currently I am married to a women who has been raped and molested when she was younger, so her first sexual experience was being molested and her first experience of intercourse with a man was being raped. So, we now have two people who have misgivings about sex, even if it is with each other.
And you thought you had problems...
Just to clarify, we talk a lot about it and so we have been able to have some mind-blowing sex, better than I thought possible. But the nagging issues.
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