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She warned me that things might change after I was gone so long, and I listened but didn't really think much of it.
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You were not even gone a month, if she cares about you, she'd wait, especially since this had to do with your future (Going to the Military Academy? That's awesome.. ) She is sounding a lot high maintenace here.
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Suddenly in the middle of may she comes out that she is picking between me and her ex.
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Oh, and you don't get any say in this at all? Very high maintenance.
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the girl talked me out of it, saying he'd done it before.
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OK so she plays a game to get his attention... part of that game is play datin a nice guy - the boyfriend thengoes crazy and threatens suicide but she doesnt care anddoesn't want him getting help? Because it's all apart of her game...
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we go on a few dates and I hang out with her every day for about 2 months. She doesn't want the girlfriend boyfriend thing,
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Of course she doesnt, she still has the boyfriend, you are just a game to her.
OK - Putting on my tough love hat.. I'm guessing you are probably 18 or 19 - based on your relationship, and this girl is probably pretty hot looking. You've got all the warning signs in front of you -- this girl is not worth the trouble. If she did choose you --it would only be a matter of time before she started playing the same games with you.
First relationships are something to be remembered and well -you can do a lot better than her -with someone who will treat you with respect... and care about you ...