I started a relationship with someone right after a two year relationship with someone else. It wasn't easy, because I still thought about my ex every day. You should try to figure out why you think about your ex. I honestly still think about my ex every day, and it scared me at first because I didn't know why. I realized that thinking about him did not mean I was still in love with him. I do not miss him, I would never get back together with him, and there are no feelings of hurt when these thoughts come about. Does it still hurt you that you and your ex broke up? Do you miss him? Do you hope that someday you both we be together again? These are questions you might want to answer. They could help in figuring out the reason why you still think about your ex.
I think that when we break up with people we've been really close to and with for a long period of time, it is normal to still think about them, unless of course, you do still have feelings for him. I think you should figure that out first.
Let me know how this goes... I'd like to try and be of more help if you give me more information on how you really feel about your ex.
