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Originally Posted by tres
I want to be a nice person, but don't want to comprimise my lifestyle..
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then don't.
sometimes assertive means that the other person will think you are an asshole.
bring up the reasons you did directly to them. you've kept up the side of the conversation that was tossed to you by the landlord. (if you were given fair warning you should have already discussed it prior so that you could flat out answer them when asked)
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