ugh i hate women like that....
anyway..i wouldnt care if he went to a strip club..just as you say not before the wedding and with a driver. i would also make a just in case condition on how much contact is allowed. but after those are clear...hell i'd want to come along! and if he didnt want me to and just wanted the boys thats fine too. as long as i got to go to a strip club with "my" boys too
its just nudity after all