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Originally Posted by simivin
I told her, shortly after she told me the number, that I would be pissed at myself to let such a good thing go merely because of her past.
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This statement implies you think her past is “bad” – have you realized that?
I'm not being critical, just pointing out my impression. I’m for never asking the question, and white lies as plan B. Just stating a number is too simplistic, and delving into the details is an emotional minefield. I think it takes “honesty in a relationship” just a step too far. I believe sex should be between two loving people, focused on each other – and knowing the numbers and/or details (of past lovers) can’t help but bring a few others into the picture.