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Old 05-26-2005, 04:26 AM   #14 (permalink)
mandy
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i think you shoulda called her in the begining.i totally agree that you dont have to talk to someone all the time to love them. my gran stays in london and i in south arfrica.she comes down once every couple of years and she phones once in a while and (i feel ashamed to say this...) i never make an effort to phone her .so the only contact i have with my gran is when she phones to talk to my mother and i answer the phone.

BUT... that doesnt mean that i love her any less.because i love her to pieces.

in my opinion this girl did have a right to know, because on the contrary to what other people may say, for a time she was his "daughter" and in that time she may have grown to love him like a father , cos perhaps she didnt have one .

i think you should've taken all the factors into considerstion here.because the death of someone you love can leave scars for a lifetime.

im sorry, im only 21 , but this is something i've been through before and it's not a nice feeling or situation to be in.
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