Originally Posted by Axiom_e

I think I have decided on my course of action, but I want to pick the brains of the forum.

Problem: There is a female that I have know for a few years and there is a physical attraction between us. She wants to act on this physical attraction and under normal circumstances I would be happy to comply. Problem is she is recently engaged. *da da duuuuuum*

As of right now we haven't done anything, but we may in the future.
(and you can all say I told you so after I come back here whining about all the problems this relationship caused)

I spoken to her about the things that could possibly go sour if we do anything. She has wavied them all away. *side note* she has cheated on her boyfriend now fiance before.

I told her that I didn't want a relationship and that all it would be is sex.
I don't want to be anybodies escape from a situation they feel powerless in.

I have several different minds of thought on the matter.

mind one:
I still have time to change my mind and not do this. After all I wouldn't want anyone to do this to me. She is probably looking for a way out of a situation she doesn't want to be in. I care about her and know this will only hurt her in the future.

mind two:
Fuck her man-she is free pussy. When things go sour, kick her ass to the curb.

mind three:
She is probably just needs an outlet to vent sexual innuendos/energy. So play the game.
But don't expect to see the touch down.

mind four:
meh.

I shift through all these mindsets. I wonder which one will succeed in the end. I think I am going through a quarter life crisis.

Do you guys have any input on her motivations or mine?