abaya

I'd have to agree w/Shani here... assuming you want to keep the relationship moving towards more (emotional) intimacy... it is somewhat disrespectful to the depth of your relationship to hold things back. People in a relationship tell each other things... that's communication, and that's what makes a relationship survive and thrive.

I am sorry that your past girlfriends made communication such a negative thing... but try your best to get out of the past and into the present. The only negative thing I can imagine w/communication is if it's done w/a negative tone, or with intent to hurt someone... but this is not the case w/you.

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And think not you can direct the course of Love;
for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
--Khalil Gibran