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I'm gonna jump onto this thread with my own question, if ya don't mind...
My girlfriend and I just entered into the world of anal last week. She always had liked me touching her ass when we were doing it, and occasionally I'd place a finger on her asshole and give some on the surface pleasure. We have good communication for these sex issues, and had both voiced interest in exploring our butts further. So last week we went for it, lubed each other up, and did some anal fingering, nothing too fancy or extreme. It felt intense and great and powerful and wierd and awesome. So we're jumping at the chance for some further anal play, to see what happens.
We want to get a butt plug and/or dildo to work on each other (not swapping without cleaning of course- we like our good hygiene, mind you) but I'm a little nervous about going for broke, anally speaking, too quickly. What has been y'all's experience as far as gradual acclimation to anal? Should we stick with fingers for a while and then go to small toys, or just head right into the sex shop and point to the big butt plug on the wall? I'm just a little concerned that we'll take too big a step forward, dislike it, and then get gun-shy about buttplay. So, is there a particular pace that anyone would like to share?
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