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Originally Posted by JustJess
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I must take issue with all of you claiming twinkle has self esteem issues. To be aware that one is 20 lbs overweight, i.e. “chubby”, doesn’t mean she automatically has self esteem problems. It does mean she’s aware of her self, faults and all. It’s not easy to be comfortable with yourself knowing that you’re overweight (or in my case, horrifyingly out of shape), but just because she doesn’t look like a supermodel doesn’t mean she’s not sleeping nights or whatever.
Now, of course I know she could have such issues, but posters are using this possibility to invalidate her instincts and feelings. Even IF she does have self esteem problems, that doesn’t mean her SO isn’t wrong to not give support/compliments. If she does in fact have self esteem issues, it’s even worse. People are supposed to support their SO’s, especially after 2 years!!! So please stop making his inattention and rudeness her fault – it’s not.
/end rant
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If your thoughts are why does he complement other women, takes photos of them but not me, and mentions being over weight, it sounds like a self esteme issue is involved. I'm not saying is some deep, dark, life crippling thing, but its there. He is not helping it any, and that he needs to work on.