I think that perhaps your fiancee does say nice things to you, in his own way, but you don't see it. You describe yourself as "I am definitely not gorgeous. I'm chubby." To me this sounds like you have a lack of assurance within yourself that you are attractive, and therefore zero in on the comments your fiancee makes about other girls. If the man you are with doesn't make you feel like the most beautiful woman in his world, then there's a problem. I'm not saying he should worship the ground you walk on, but if he doesn't affirm his love and devotion to you in such a way that you *know* he thinks you're the greatest thing ever, then you need to talk to him about it, and have a serious sit down about how you two feel for each other before you go and get married.
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In conics she can floor peculiarities parabolous -C'hi
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