Well we've actually been talking about it so to me a letter would almost make it seem more of an urgent situation, which its not. The whole idea of waiting for her to be ready has gotten a little confusing to me, as I always imagined your standard sexual practices and physical intimacy being intertwined, but things have developed where incredibly physical things will occur but nothing overtly sexual. I'd be fine with waiting, but I'm wondering if its not our emotional state this is contigent on, exactly what will change over time. Is it just that the social stigma attached to these things will lessen as she branches out from her more repressed roots, or is there some other factor time would help that I'm missing?
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