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I can't remember a time in my life when I ever felt I needed something to be a more complete person. When I started going out with SecretMethod70, I was perfectly happy with who I was. Now, we've had an amazing relationship and I've grown through being with him, but I see it as more of a postive addition to what is my life, not that he filled a hole that was there. I think a child would be the same way. Yes, I love children and I do want to have some of my own one day, but if I don't for whatever reason, that would be alright too. I have no doubt that a child would enrich my life in incredible ways, but I wouldn't feel "empty" if I don't have one of my own.
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"The world is so exquisite with so much love and moral depth, that there is no reason to deceive ourselves with pretty stories for which there’s little good evidence. Far better it seems to me, in our vulnerability, is to look death in the eye and to be grateful every day for the brief but magnificent opportunity that life provides"
-Carl Sagan
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