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Originally Posted by lindseylatch
Ok, I have a BIG problem with this...Cause it sounds like a test. Which is stupid and immature. If you want him to remember your birthday, then remind him. If you don't care, then don't. Don't make it into a "well, if he CARED about me, he'd remember it all by himself!" Cause I seriously doubt there's a correlation between his level of affection and his ability to remember a string of (basically arbitrary) numbers.
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Thank you. You are right. It would have been like a test. and that is wrong, after all these years. I am really glad I was able to post this here. You have all helped me to see many sides of the same coin. I should just stop letting it bother me that he needs reminders every now and again. I am still learning that I have to change me and not try to change him. I feel so much better since I asked him about it. He didn't seem to mind that I asked either.