To be honest we've never picked up a person or couple in a more public place or even a regular bar. We picked up a couple once when we were with a couple who were swinger friends of ours. My girlfriend and I were flirting and having fun with this other girl and her boyfriend. It was at a tractor pull. Eventually when things were over we invited them over to our friends place after the pull. That was a surprise to all of us when they took us up on the offer.
Most of the time though hubby and I meet COUPLES at swinger clubs. The single men are more plentiful than single women so finding a single girl can be harder. I'm often the one to proposition the women. It's easier at swinger clubs though because the people there know what everyone else is there for and no one gets offended by propositions. Plus, usually those propositioning dont' get pushy because most clubs have the rule "no means no" rule.
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