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Originally Posted by JustJess
Yes, I think he'd have to have a lot of input (no pun intended). I think that's my nervousness... it's such an awkward topic for most people! How do YOU decide someone might be up for "targeting"?
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If they flirt a lot and drop hints, if I've had discussions where they talk about relationships and seem pretty open-minded, if they're just so hot that you think "what the hell!?! I'm trying!" heh. In college we thought about a threesome with our good friend Joel. We'd known him for years and figured from conversations we'd had that he'd be up for it, so we asked. At first he was pretty keen, but then we all kind of got weirded out by the prospect (didn't want anything to get in the way of our friendship) and called it off. So then we went to our bi-freak friend Andrea, and asked her. That one didn't work out either but it was the "freak" part
that soured the deal. My advice: pick someone you know to be emotionally stable, but that you're not so close to that you couldn't stand losing them if it doesn't work out.