That is a really mature and wise list!
My wife and I decided early on not to yell unless we are far away from each other and need the extra volume to cover the difference. As far as our experience, yelling solves nothing and usually escelates a disagreement to a bad fight. I've let this leak over into the rest of my life. I haven't yelled at anyone in over a year, and not only does it not bother me, but it feels kinda good.
My wife and I are also really big believers in make up sex. Theere is simply nothing that removes tension like a great night's non-sleep.
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