Originally Posted by Philangicality

I don't think that sex is the most important aspect in a relationship. I think that sex is just a reward for they way that you act towards your S.O. This is why people say that it's the chase that people want. The hard part of a relationship is maintaining a blance so that the both of you are happy enough to spend time together without thinking about having sex. Marriage should be with a person that sex comes natural to. You both should just end up finding yourselves being sexually attracted to eachother BECAUSE of how much you do not want to have sex with eachother. It is just too easy to have sex everytime somebody wants it. I think it's all about reassuring the other person that you still want find them sexy.