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Originally Posted by Chuckles
what do you guys think about bringing back past things? Say an argument has been goin on, and one brings back examples that their s.o. has done in the past, yet that has already been argued and settled? Is it fair to use that against them then? Things like "well remember that time you....." can that be used? Or how bout things u know about them previous to your relationship to them?
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I found personally that when I was bringing up 'past issues' even as examples, I still had resentment and anger... so even though it may have been discussed and sorted, it still lingered.
The other aspect I see in this is for point-scoring, it's not tennis... stick with the issue.