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Originally Posted by abaya
On the tears... what if they aren't being used as a weapon? If really strong emotions overcome someone, I think crying is the same as needing to walk out suddenly. As long as they aren't done with malice/manipulation in mind, then I think they're both okay?...
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Absolutely - but do you realize that would have given me permission to turn and walk out whenever she started to cry? I'm kidding, a bit... Although tears can't be helped sometimes, the talk needs to stop right there and be picked up later or else it is manipulative. And I can't say for sure that it always happened just as my point was about to be made, but...
Oh well, you'll notice the past tense in the language and so I was either really bad at fighting, and we split up OR I was very good and I won. It's all how you look at it.
