shakran

so can premarital sex, but she wasn't thinking of that when she was in bed with that guy was she?

Yes, obviously, anything you do has consequences. What's your point. If a woman feels that an abortion has consequences which are too unpleasant, she needs to be prepared to deal with the consequences of THAT decision as well.

The way you're structuring it is this:

Man has 0 say in whether or not the kid is had.
Man then has 0 say in whether or not the kid is kept.
Man has 100% responsibility for the production of the kid.
Man has at LEAST (often more) 50% financial responsibility.

That doesn't make sense. If I have no say in whether something happens, then I shouldn't be held financially responsible when it does.

And your comment about men being allowed to run around impregnating women is ludicrous. You talk about being equality minded, then in one sentence you tell us all women are mindless sluts who have their legs open to any man who happens by. The woman has a brain too, ya know, and she can decide whether or not to be impregnated. I don't know how it works where you're from, but in my country you're not allowed to have sex with a woman unless she agrees to it. This image of men running around impregnating people is stupid - for every man that's legally impregnated a woman, there's a woman who allowed herself to be impregnated.