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Originally Posted by bubonico
I've never done it and neither has she, but my girl recently asked me if I'd ever be interested in having anal sex. I told her that it was really a big turn on for me. She seemed kinda freaked out by that at first. The next day she said she'd be willing to try it once, but if it was no bueno then never again. Well I'm nervous because the way I figure if I blow my one shot then I'll never get to enjoy it again. Also I'd like her to enjoy it as well, and I certainly don't want to hurt her. So I'm looking for some advice. Guys if you could let me know any methods you've successfully employed to get a girl to enjoy anal sex. Girls if you could give me some ideas of what you like about it or something perhaps that would help ease her mind. Thanks for the help.
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Its wonderful to see your open attitude towards this form of sexuality that many men are deeply fearful of. Your girl will need to purchase a quality strap-on dildo. Pay attention to the harness material and where the pressure of the dildo will meet her pelvis. You'll want to be sure that your anus is properly lubricated, that you are relaxed, and clean (recent BM, shower). Understand that if this is your first time being penetrated that the sensation may be be strange at first and could possibly involve feelings you previously understood as pain. These feelings should subside with time and practice. Begin with a smaller sized dildo and work larger if you so desire, not the other way around.
BTW the term for this activity is "pegging"