Yes, cheating sucks. I ruins your trust and it violates the vows you took. But.....before you jump into the lawyers and divorce, please talk with her and see if counseling will help (if you want to go that route). Even if my wife cheated on me, I can't say that I would be on the phone to my lawyer right away.
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A little rudeness and disrespect can elevate a meaningless interaction to a battle of wills and add drama to an otherwise dull day. Calvin
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