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Originally Posted by la petite moi
This is a difficult situation, though. He is relying on me for any sex because he and I are engaged! I don't want to be the bad wife that only has sex once a month or something.
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Does that equal bad wife? What's the magic number? Once a week?
Sometimes life is just what it is.
People tend to equate being married with having access to sex 24/7. How absurd is that? Even married people have things to do like work, friends, family, etc. which can restrict sex via time, stress, other activities, cycles etc.
Skogafoss sometimes feels like you because sometimes we go 1-2 weeks without having any bed time and I tell her that I would like for it to be more often. What she doesn't understand sometimes is that sometimes I don't feel like it when she's interested in having sex. I used to feel guilty about it seeing as maybe the day before I was a bit miffed to her rebuffs and maybe this was my only time before we'd get another chance 1-2 weeks from then.
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