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well what can i say. every person, every relationship has problems, and some of those problems quite frankly make your "i'm 18, and my lifes so fucking hard cos my parents never loved me" shit pale in to insignificance. DON'T FUCKING INSULT ME BY TRIVIALISING THE THINGS I HAVE TO DEAL WITH AND UNDERSTAND.
you come on here, tell us how your relationship is basically a train wreck waitng to happen, but, in your words, your getting married and it isnt something you are "budging on", and then people with more life experience than you give you advice, only for you to react bitterly to that advice. i wasnt passing judgement, merely stating the obvious, if you guys are at this point already, then you SERIOUSLY need to re-evaluate what you are doing together.
if you dont want opinions, don't post. you may not like it when someone gives you advice other than the nice fluffy "you can make it work", but back in the real world sexual incompatibility is a huge problem.
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"People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. I don't believe in circumstances. The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and, if they can't find them, make them."
George Bernard Shaw
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