Sage

You know, generally I don't go along with the kind of extreme measures that are sometimes recommended here like the ones by Kirk and eribrav, but this time I think I will.

LPM, based on what you've posted (on other threads and on this thread) about your home life, your early childhood, being molested, hating your mother, etc etc, etc, I think you have SERIOUS issues which need to be dealt with FIRST AND FOREMOST before anything. Your medication might be enhancing these issues, but I don't think that's all of it. My personal opnion? Break up, move out of your parent's house, get your own job, go to thearapy, put your head together. Because if you don't have your shit together, you can't expect ANYONE else to do it for you, not your sister, not your thearapist, and ESPECIALLY not your SO, whomever that may be. I KNOW- I'VE BEEN THERE.

You seem to be coming to TFP looking for someone to give you the easy way out, but it's not that simple. You seriously need to do some growing up, mentally and emotionally, before you're gonna be ready to tackle hard problems like sexual dysfunction. Based on what you and nwlinkvxd have said, I think that nwlinkvxd is just acting like a typical, horny, not too grown up himself 20 year old man whose GF is having emotional trauma. Yes, he's being a semi-bastard, but it's not that atypical in your situation.

Just because you can have sex doesn't mean you should be. Get your shit together LPM, and grow into a whole, complete woman who can and does take care of herself BEFORE you start thinking about marriage, or even a long term relationship. I wish you luck, but at the end of the day you're the only one inside your own head.

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