Um Jim kata, have you TOLD your gf how you feel about sex once a month? How else is she supposed to realize its effect on your relationship if you don't tell her?
Also, I'm not sure about your comment "I don't know why girls don't understand this." If you think it's all about bc, then you really need to talk with your gf more, man.
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