maleficent

Tell her that you have a problem with organized religion, while you would gladly support her (if that's the case) you can't bring yourself to go into a church, or support church events.

You do not need to go into reasons, just a simple statement and leave it at that. Don't leave the door open for questions on her part.

If you want to be friends with her, then make alternate arrangements to meet up for a drink, or lunch or dinner some time in the future. If you don't wish to see this woman again, then don't say anything.

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