I know how the jealousy thing goes, I can get that way sometimes, but I really don't have that issue unless there's a good reason. I tend to let things happen, there's no point being paranoid about everything someone else does all the time, you'll just drive yourself crazy.
Long distance relationships are another thing altogether, those are really hard. I've tried that, and I really don't want to do it again. Not being able to see the other person is not that fun, it just presents a lot of issues (like this one) that I prefer not to deal with. I totally respect people who make those work, because they are just that: work.
I suppose I'd just say, like everyone else it seems like, make sure you communicate well, and just try to let things happen. I really hate the "if it's meant to be, it will work out" cliche, because it's not quite that simple, but it's like I say, getting all worked up over things you can't control will just drive you insane.
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