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Originally Posted by tres
Another option is to use your fantasies about her, then go home and be with your wife... this way, your not hurting anyone... Maybe Talk your wife into a little roleplaying and ask her to pretend she's a co-worker.
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Yeah, right! WTF?!? Any woman with half a brain is going to say "so you want to nail your co-worker do you? You mean that new secretary with the great body and killer tits, don't you? I KNEW IT! You son-of-a-bitch! Go sleep on the couch!" And this would be followed by at least a week of jerking off in the shower.
Fatboss, I know exactly what you're going through. I was in the same situation. Once my wife even half clued into the fact that there was a female at my workspace that I got along well with (that's it, that's all) she became instantaneously jealous, and that jealousy did not subside until we packed up and moved 15 hours away...
Whoever suggested telling your wife about your lust issue is probably not married. I suggest not telling her. I also strongly suggest not nailing the co-worker because, even though right now it seems like the best thing you could possibly do, it really would be the most damaging, destructive thing you could do. Finally, I'll give you the best advice you may receive from all this - Flirt all you want, and if she offers to show you her tits, look, but don't touch. Famous words from a not so famous man.