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Originally Posted by abaya
Uptown, this is what you said:
I have a hard time not hearing that statement as being anything other than a general comment on the fact that "high-class" women are the ones who should give up sex after menopause, meaning that lower-class women are those who do not (like those of us replying to your posts). How else can we take it?
Also, you are still not answering mine or anyone's repetitive questioning of where you get your ideas from. Please just tell us what kind of relationship you are in, and how you are treated (or were, in the past). Why are you watching granny porn if you don't like it? Who is forcing you to watch it? And do you think porn is an accurate representation of reality in any way? PLEASE answer the questions here so that we can have an actual dialogue.
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I looked at granny porn in an attempt to get an accurate picture of how I must look visually when I'm having sex,seeing women who looked like me,scarred, stretched marked, wrinkled and saggy breasted, writhing around like they were some sort of sex kittens quite frankly made me ill.
I was reared in a time where women were taught that stretch marks from babies meant no more bikini's, that if you got the double whammy and got varicose veins that it also meant no bathing suits period,not even one piece
numbers,no shorts,skirts or anything that exposed your bare leg. "People go to the beach or pool to have a good time and enjoy a nice view,if you are marked and scarred it is unfortunate but you must cover up,it's part of the price you pay for becoming a mother"
I was unlucky,in spite of being slim and exercising, I got stretch marks aplenty, varicose veins and surgical scars,I played by the rules though and accordingly have not worn a bathing suit, shorts,leg reveling dress or skirt in over 20 yrs.
I have eyes, I know what is visually arousing,what is physically attractive and what is not, the thought of a guy having to say "I love you so much I'm gonna close my eyes and make love to you in spite of your ugly body" just makes me cringe in humilation, I dislike the concept of mercy sex,why does that not answer your question well enough?